Saturday, July 04, 2009

-- When LigHt TaKeS OveR DarkNeSS --
Dedicated to :- Madam, Darlin, Eve, YY & The Others.... :)
Adversity is Men's Best friend!!! Weird??? Well at a first glance, it does look pretty weird in fact looks like i'm totally out of my mind to say something like that but when experiences sets in, that's when the truth hits home as well and only then will one realize that Adversity is truly men's best friend. Simply because more often than not, it ends up creating a vicissitude...
The only questions is :- Is it for the good or the bad???
Well, 2 years back, i remember sitting on the floor, in my room, where darkness was my only companion, bawling my hearts out... To be truthful, it was neither once nor twice but actually countless times where i had such meltdowns..
And the REASON??? - *smiles*
Now, its more than 2 years and yes, i wouldn't deny that i still have such meltdowns. (old habits die hard) but this time, there's one different thing... I have learned to see the world, my world that is from a different vantage point.
Gone were the days where the incessant self regret clouded and clogged my cerebellum... These days, despite the occasional visits by Mr. Self Regret himself, i've learn that life is too short to dwell in the past...
Who ever said that vicissitudes were bad.. Well, coz for me,despite the freaking fact that my turbulence had blew me off course and caused me to land in a desert of no man nor help, i cant help but agree that that the turbulence had created a vicissitude with suprisingly positive implications...
Not only have i been blessed with certain accomplishments, but the one i'm most proud of is :- Knowing these few great people that i cant help but love and treasure.
People who have i got to know over the year and the same exact people who have played a significant role in making my life betta... People or should i say, FRIENDS that not only sit with me through boring classes and sonorous tutorials, but also friends who eat, laugh, work and joke together.. Most importantly, a set of friends who i'll treasure and a lifetime and who, if not for the freaking turbulence, i would have never come to know...
So there u go, thank u fLaMe... Thank you for the turbulence and a special thank you to my stupidity and the ever low self confidence coz if not for these adversities, i would have never met such terrific people...
So tell me people, isnt adversity men's best friend? For only after an adversity, can one learn to cherish life on a better scale....
*Cherished Foreva*

1 comments:

josephine said...

hehe!! read ur blog i need to find dictionary lol....haha!! but anyway happy that u treat me as a nice friend ..the word i want to say is "we gambateh together"because life is too short to dwell in the past.i agree with that ,so look forward to our future.Try our best to do it to please our family and also for ourselves.hehe!!